If a guy is able to understand your feelings,and he did not jump into a conclusion when you say something,he's kinda perfect. Not all the guys does this. When a girl is explaining something,and he's listening patiently,he is almost perfect.Not all the guys are patience.If he directly hurts your feelings,hurt him back.Thats the only way to make them realise how much they hurt us.Give them back whatever they give us.Humans are not perfect. =.=